Father’s Day: How Can New Fathers Reset Their Personal Finances After Parenthood

Becoming a father comes with a shift, not just in daily routines, but in how you think about money. Expenses are not just personal anymore, they get tied to someone else’s future as well. That realisation often pushes financial planning higher up the priority list.

However, such transitions don’t have to be overwhelming, they may just need some clarity, structure, and a little discipline.

So, here are a few things one may consider worth re-working after stepping into fatherhood.

Map New Changes

The most immediate financial change after you have a child is that your monthly outflow increases. You will have to budget for expenses such as vaccinations, school admissions, insurance top-ups, daycare, clothes, among other things that will add up quickly.

As such, you may consider breaking down your finances intro basic buckets like:

Short-term goals: Factor in any ongoing, regular needs you may have related to school fees, daycare, or medical check-ups.

Mid-term goals: Expenses expected in the next 3-5 years, like early schooling or home upgrades.

Long-term goals: In this bucket, you should factor in future milestones that concern financial support for your children, such as higher education, housing, and financial independence.

Keep Liquidity in Mind

One common mistake people make is locking too much money away in long-term investments, keeping an eye on the future. However, raising a child may bring many expected (or unexpected) needs along the way. For such situations having accessible money matters just as much.

For instance, high return, low liquidity products may not help much when you need to pay school fees next month. So it is advisable to keep a mix of allocation in your budget - some in savings or short-term debt funds for easy access, and other in long-term growth instruments like equity mutual funds or Public Provident Fund (PPF).

Separate Your Child’s Fund

This is not about creating a formal trust or a minor’s account. While you are budgeting, keep a separate child fund to help you maintain a dedicated investment folio for your child. This will create clarity, both mentally and financially.

With a separate fund dedicated as an investment folio for your child, you are less likely to dip into it for other purposes, and it will give you a better sense of whether you are on track to meet your child’s needs.

Revisit Insurance

If you have put off buying term insurance or adequate health cover, now’s the time to fix that. Life insurance is not just about replacing income, it is about protecting your child from uncertainty. A simple term plan with adequate cover is usually more effective than bundled insurance-cum-investment products.

Don’t forget to check your family’s health cover, too. Make sure your child is included in the insurance plan and the cover is sufficient for the higher medical costs you may face.

Tax Planning is Crucial

There are real tax advantages that come with child-related expenses, if you plan it properly. 

For instance, tuition fees for up to two children are eligible for deduction under Section 80C of the Income-tax Act, 1961 (under the old tax regime). Some allowances, such as hostel and education fees are exempt under Section 10(14). Moreover, medical premiums and preventive check-ups for children are covered under Section 80D.

If you have a girl child, the Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana offers attractive, tax-free returns under the old regime.

Keep it Simple, Skip the Noise

One of the most useful things you can do at this stage is to stay away from complexity. The investment landscape is full of child-specific plans, insurance-linked products, and flashy alternatives promising high returns. Many of them come with strings attached, long lock-ins, poor liquidity, or confusing fee structures.

Stick to what you understand. A mix of term insurance, systematic investment plans (SIPs) in mutual funds, and basic debt products often works better than products that try to do everything in one package.

Build an Emergency Cushion

If you already have an emergency fund, revisit it. Your cost base changes once you have to look after a child. That cushion now needs to cover a wider range of possibilities, from your child’s hospital visits to an unexpected disruption in income.

Experts say that ideally one should have around 4-6 months of expenses set aside in a liquid, accessible form.

Regular ‘Re-evaluation’ is Necessary

It is easy to forget or derail from the set financial goals or plans once life gets busy. However, checking in every year or two to update expense estimates, tweaking SIP amounts, and rebalancing investments is important, as it will help you go a long way in keeping things on track.

The Bottom Line

Fatherhood does not demand perfection from your finances, but it does require clarity and action. Most of the groundwork can be done with a few hours of review and some steady follow-through. The sooner you align your financial choices with the realities of being a parent, the easier it becomes to meet those responsibilities without stress.