Yet, this is exactly what most of us do. We allow and oft times depend on the male members to make investment decisions for us. Women have always been financially savvy. Budgeting, allocation of income and expenses and managing finances of the household is something that they have been carrying off with aplomb for centuries. However, when it comes to making big investment decisions, they leave it to the men. “During a meeting with one of the top most women lawyer’s I learnt that her finances were managed by her husband. Being a woman banker with two decades of wealth management experience, this wasn’t a revelation. I have seen the most qualified women doctors, Bollywood actors and architects being often petrified with the term money management. These extremely intelligent, qualified and capable women often get a cold feet and the onus quickly moves to the man of the house. It’s definitely disappointing to see this time and again, and in my own way I have made conscious steps to change that around me,” shared Zohra Merchant, Managing Partner, Private Client Group, WGC Wealth. The question then is, what perpetuates this seeming lack of ability to take investment decisions? Is it that women are just not well informed? Is it that they do not have the necessary financial education or find it difficult to grasp financial concepts? Or is it simply a matter of societal conditioning? It is possibly a conflation of all of the above.Naghma Mulla, COO, EdelGive Foundation, shared an interesting analogy. “When women began driving, marking their entry into a former, quintessentially male domain, there was scepticism, (often created and enhanced by male counterparts) on women’s prowess to do so efficiently. Over time, and after myriad messages and memes, what was a technical skill became a gendered one. In a similar fashion, the fallacy that women, by and large, cannot be astute investors was germinated and grew gendered over time. Majority of women, across classes and other demographics, without MBAs or with them manage the finances of the largest institution there is. Therefore, there is no reason why gender should determine your driving or investment skills.” This is telling in so many was. There is a strong societal conditioning that tells us that there are some things that men know best while there are other things that women know best and that the two can never cross paths. “There is a silent conditioning that we women need to aggressively get rid off,” stated Mulla. It is perhaps equally, if not more important, to glean knowledge to arm oneself with the ability to make informed decisions. According to I. V. Subramaniam, Director, Quantum Mutual Fund and CIO,Quantum Advisors, “Investment decisions are tethered to two factors. One is financial education and the other is the confidence to make the investment decision. Both are interdependent.” Women need to have the confidence to take investment decisions. This confidence will stem from knowledge. If money is a primary need then learning to handle money should be an integral part of any individual’s education. Today, we are adopting digital journeys like never before. We must harness technology to facilitate and encourage financial education. “I always advise my clients to include women in active management of their wealth not just in an event of eventuality but to empower them so that they make their own decisions that are not guided by relatives. For which, education series for the wife and daughters is the first step. While incrementally they grow into managing money, the initial reluctance can be addressed at an early age. Managing financial health of an individual is imperative and should be inculcated in schools just like physical education or yoga. Preliminary learning like opening a bank account, how pocket money in bank rather than in cash helps grow money (interest), online access, fixed deposits and Systematic Investment Plan. Mostly reluctance and fear of decision-making holds women from investing and gold becomes an easy and the only choice. Seamlessly, including games like Vyapar or monopoly subconsciously help sow the seeds of taking decisions and managing money with confidence and discipline”, shared Merchant.